In the service industry, leadership is not just a position—it’s a performance. Just as a seamless guest experience requires careful attention to detail, great leadership demands continuous focus and adaptability. The gaps that leaders leave unfilled can cause cracks in teams, weakening quality, cohesion, and consistency. Over time, those cracks can widen, jeopardising the entire business.
Leadership in this sector requires more than management skills, it requires resilience, trust-building, storytelling, and an unwavering commitment to excellence. Above all, Leadership is Service.

The role of a leader: performance and authenticity
A true leader in the service industry is always "on stage." It’s not about pretending to be perfect; it’s about projecting unwavering strength and stability. As one experienced leader said:
“If you are the leader, never show you are stressed, never show your anger, never show that you are tired. You always have to be 100 percent. Every morning when I arrive, I must be 100 percent—even if there’s a problem, even if I didn’t sleep last night.”
This level of consistency sets the tone for the entire team. If staff see their leader falter, uncertainty and chaos follow. But if they witness calm, focus, and a drive to aim higher, they will naturally follow suit.
Leadership is service
At its core, leadership in the service industry is about serving others: staff, customers, and the business itself. Service-oriented leadership manifests in many ways:
Serving staff: by being a role model, offering support, recognising achievements, and providing constructive criticism.
Serving customers: ensuring that each guest feels valued by maintaining high standards of service.
Serving the business: anticipating problems, finding creative solutions, and safeguarding the organisation’s reputation.

Leaders protect their teams. They shield staff from public criticism, advocate for them, and offer the necessary training to help them excel. If a team member underperforms, it is the leader’s responsibility to address the issue, not by placing blame but by improving their skills and guiding them toward success.
Trust: the glue that holds teams together
Trust is the invisible thread that binds a team and fuels exceptional service. Leaders must lead by example, demonstrating trust in their teams. When trust is evident, it inspires loyalty and accountability.
Trust-building in action:
Give autonomy: show your team you believe in their capabilities by allowing them to take ownership of tasks.
Be transparent: share relevant information and make decisions with integrity.
Demonstrate trust publicly: celebrate individual achievements and recognise team efforts.
When leaders trust their teams, those teams become more resilient, adaptable, and unified. Trust is the foundation of any service-driven culture.
The power of storytelling in leadership
Great leaders are also master storytellers. Stories shape how people view their roles, their teams, and the organisation. When a story is well-crafted and relevant, it can motivate, inspire, and create a sense of belonging.
In the service industry, leaders use storytelling to:
Reinforce company values and culture.
Create a shared vision for the future.
Turn everyday challenges into powerful lessons.
Inspire action and encourage change.

These stories don’t just stay within the walls of the business. Customers, critics, and competitors will tell stories about your brand. Leaders must be proactive in shaping and influencing those narratives.
The loneliness of leadership
Leadership is inherently lonely. Leaders are "of" the team, not "in" the team. They must straddle the line between connection and authority, knowing when to establish boundaries and when to be open and accessible.
At times, leaders will find themselves standing in the uncomfortable space between their team and higher management. In those moments, they must navigate upward and downward dynamics with grace. Staying grounded, authentic, and focused on the mission is the key to managing that loneliness.
Rewarding excellence
Recognition and rewards play a crucial role in sustaining motivation. Thoughtful rewards, tailored to the individual, demonstrate that a leader truly knows and values their team.
A generic thank-you email is nice, but a bespoke reward speaks volumes. It shows that the leader understands the unique contributions of each person.
Rewards can take many forms:
Personal notes of appreciation.
Opportunities for professional development.
A simple public acknowledgment at a team meeting.
The most effective rewards are those that align with the recipient’s personal preferences and professional aspirations.
Excellence is not natural
The pursuit of excellence in the service industry is not instinctive. It’s a disciplined, conscious effort. As unnatural as it feels at times, excellence becomes second nature through repetition, passion, and sheer willpower. Leaders must want it enough to push through even when they’re not at their best. As the saying goes, “Fake it till you make it”—and in leadership, you must fake it so well that no one notices the difference.
The truth is, there’s no magic formula for leadership success. It’s a blend of passion, dedication, and adaptability. But one thing is certain: the leader sets the tone. When a leader demands excellence from themselves, it cascades down to every part of the business.
Leadership that inspires and transforms
Leadership in the service industry is about more than management, it’s about vision, trust, and relentless pursuit of excellence. As renowned hotelier Ritz-Carlton co-founder Horst Schulze once said, “You can’t create an exceptional customer experience without first creating an exceptional employee experience.”
True leaders serve their teams, empower their people, and inspire by example. They embrace the challenges, tell powerful stories, and create cultures where trust and excellence thrive.
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